Thursday, April 10, 2014

Mekong Delta - Hey brother, can you spare a pineapple?

Clean up on aisle 7!
Somewhere on a list generated by a publication akin to The New York Times or Time Magazine (or maybe just some Facebook post) the Mekong Delta is listed as a top 10 trip to take in your lifetime.  Well, I do not disagree.

With Nan and Poppy still in town we headed down to the delta with a private guide for a 2 day jaunt.  We knew one of the highlights was going to be the giant floating market in Can Tho.  I just don't think any of us realized it's magnitude, scope, or authenticity.  I also don't think any of us realized how cool the other events on our docket were going to be.  I am going to let the photo's do most of the talking here...I ended up with almost twice as many shots in 2 days then I had in a week in Borneo.  Just amazing things happening all around us.  At the market we Graeme ate a ton of fruit.  Our guide was blown away.  He doesn't even usually care for pineapple and he ate an entire 1/2 of one in about 45 seconds.  To his defense, these were the best pineapples any of us had ever had.  No acidity, creamy texture - even in the core, juicy and a few days off of the bush.  Ditto with the mangoes, watermelons and whatever else we could get our hands on.  These boats can hold up to 10 tons, or 10,000 pineapples.  They come from as far away as up to 60-80km loaded to the gills, returning when empty.  There is an entire lifestyle, livelihood and culture created around this trade and this market in particular.
Don't think I can do it, do ya?

Guess what is in season?

Seedless??

So much better then Starbucks...

Pineapple express

The people really do make the Delta..

Can we get just one?







Tiger on Leopard prints are so in right now.

Flying the pineapple flag

Told ya I had this..

Hmm...what's fresh?

Family time on the river...

Aside from the floating market, we took a really cool sampan ride through canals clogged with floating plants.  We were the only people around and it was so peaceful and green.  Just surrounded by green.
Nan and Poppy all smiles in their Non La's

Graeme on Crocodile watch...

Potato delivery
























How many shades of green are there?





















































Our boat ride ended with a walk along a path that meandered through people's backyards.  We got to see into their homes, smile and wave to them as well as see, hear and smell the incredible environment they call home.  In our short walk we must have come across a few dozen different fruits and vegetables growing in the wild...and it just got better.  We ended up at a home that has transformed itself into a restaurant for folks just like us.  Each group gets it's own gazebo and the eating begins!  Fried Elephant Ear fish, Giant River Prawns, spring rolls, the works!  Truly a gourmet meal served on a tiny island in the Mekong, in someone's backyard.  Wow!
Just your average stroll...

Elephant Ear fish



















We will wind it up with a quick boat ride to another island for a leisurely bike ride.  We brought Graeme's bike seat with us just for the occasion.  The island doesn't have roads.  Just pathway's (about the size of a golf cart path).  The locals are fishermen, fish farmers, farmers and any other ancillary job surrounding those trades.  As bicycle are our (Erin, Graeme and I) main source of transportation, I never did ask Maria and Ross if they were comfortable on a bike.  I mean, when was the last time you rode one?  They handled them like champs, with Maria only going off-road one time but still staying upright.  This village must be 90% populated with children.  We had to have said "Hello!"  "Xin Chao!" and high-fived to over 1,000 of them.  It seemed never ending....when I asked our guide about it he joked "No movie theater here"....
Biker gang

Here we come!







 
Our send off party

Truly, another adventure of a lifetime!  And this one starts only 2 hours away from our place, so when you come to visit we will not hesitate to dial up our guide and take you along to witness and cherish the Mekong Delta!

We had such a great time with Nan and Poppy during their visit.  We did and saw so many things.  Way too many to blog about.  These are just some of the things we were able to do and see with them. 

(click here to see pictures of a motorbike tour of Saigon that includes birds, Ross and I eating 1/2 hatched quail eggs, drinking beer made that morning that cost 75cents per liter, and much more)

Graeme enjoyed having them so much.  From all these great trips to playing "fort" and "castle" in his room with Poppy, to playing "alligator" at the pool with Nan and so much more.  Truly a fantastic 3 weeks.  Safe travels back to the states and we will see you in a few months time...

If you 'd like to see ALL the pics from the Delta trip CLICK HERE.

Thanks again so much for reading our blog.  We really appreciate it and enjoy hearing that others are following us along on our journey!

Hòa Bình,
The Hawken's in HCMC
#thetaoofgraeme

Friday, April 4, 2014

Borneo - Orangutan, Tree House, Jungle Love

Sunset, distant island, sunken ship, calm sea lapping against the shoreline - check!
"Why?"    That has been the number 1 response we have received from people when we told them we were heading to Borneo for Spring Break.  But, who wouldn't want to go to Borneo was the thought in my mind.  The 3rd largest island in the world and largest in all of Asia.  One of only 2 places left on Earth (outside of a zoo) that you can see an orangutan.  Pristine jungle habitats mere minutes from an international airport, making entry and exit simple (a definite plus when traveling with a 3 year old).  On top of all that, we had special guests in town at that time so why not drag them along with us?


Keeping Annie's in business...

Nan and Poppy (Erin's parents) arrived as our first official visitors from the US to stay with us just prior to the trip.  They successfully smuggled enough comforts of home for us to last a long long time.

A varietal cornucopia of Annie's Mac-n-Cheese, Organic Fruit Smash-Ups, new PJ's, popcorn, books, real maple syrup, non-scented laundry detergent...you name it.  They were allowed 2 bags each of 50 lbs equaling 200 lbs.  I think 198lbs of it was food for us!  Thanks to everyone who had sent them gifts, Christmas Cards and memento's from home to bring to us.  It was so great to see the photo's from Christmas cards and put them in our glass-top coffee table to ogle.  Christmas in March!





Our digs for the week....
We went to Malaysian Borneo (there are 3 countries on the island - Malaysia, Brunei, and Indonesia) just outside of Kuching.  We stayed at a resort right on the beach of the South China Sea and buried in a jungle.  Our sleeping quarters?  Tree houses, of course!  The house surrounded by the jungle with the ocean literally lapping up on rocks underneath us.  This place was epic.  10 tree houses and a restaurant to eat at and hang.  2 beaches, kayaks, SUP's, and a pool that was one of the creeks that trickled down the jungle to the ocean re-routed to an area of rocks they layed out to capture some of the water.

Graeme was over the moon before we arrived telling anyone who would listen that we were going to Borneo and going to sleep in tree houses.  Well, once we got there he was ecstatic.  His favorite thing was yelling from our tree house to Nan and Poppy's tree house "NAN!"  "NAN!" everytime we were headed out for an adventure.


 So, like I said, we were living in the jungle.  Within the week, without leaving our resort we ran into the following animals:  Macaque monkeys, Silver Leaf Monkey's, Proboscis Monkey's, Green Leaf Snake, Green Pit Viper Snake, Flying Squirrel, Flying Lemur, Monitor Lizard, Chipmunk looking squirrels, dolphins, and that's just what we saw.  Who knows what we missed walking through the jungle that was camouflaged from our site.
Squirrel-Munk?

Green Pit Viper - aka "100 Pace Snake" because that's what you have left if bitten, 100 paces.  Also, that is about how far from our tree house this guy was.

Don't look down...

Jungle living...

Jungle taking over the signage...


















































"Orang" = Man  "Utan" = Jungle - Man of the Jungle.  That's how the Malay named what may be, at least in my opinion, one of the coolest mammals on the planet.  Unfortunately, thanks to mankind, there are only 2 places left to find them in the wild (the other being Sumatra).  There are about 27,000 Orangutan left in the wild and 20,000 or so are in Borneo.  Unfortunately that number is dwindling thanks to Palm Oil industry types obliterating the forestry to make way for thier spoils.  You can get all fired up about it by reading HERE.  

Please, Please, Please - check the labels of the products you purchase and DO NOT purchase the ones that are using Palm Oil.  If you don't buy + They don't sell = Orangutan's live.  Pretty simple.  

Somewhere in college I learned something about supply and demand or something like that and it may or may not apply here.  I'll let you be the judge.

Manap!
We took a ride a bit south to the Semenggoh Wildlife Centre where, if you are lucky, you can see them up close and in person, and in the wild.  Twice a day they put fruit out for the orangutan and call to them.  They have about 30 or so that they keep tabs on.  We were lucky enough to have our new friend, Manap, come and join us for an afternoon snack.  He is 13 years old and enjoys throwing food, sticks and rocks at people.  He took aim at one fellow gawker, lined him up with a cocunut shell and let him have it from about 30 feet away.  A direct hit!  It was pretty surreal watching his movements, habits and mannerisms.  He seemed to understand the guide from the Centre as he spoke to him and as it seemed Manap asked him for more food.  For such a big animal it didn't seem like he needed much of a tree limb or branch to stay balanced, and his feet were amazing to watch - reminded me more of hands then feet.




Graeme enjoying Manap from the comfort of his Mom's arms

While we were watching him it started to rain a bit.  He scrambled up higher into the trees and within just a few yards he was pretty much invisible.  If we hadn't been watching him go, there is no way we would have been able to tell he was there.  As it rained harder he actually found some large leaves and put them over his head to use as an umbrella.  Amazing.  He did come back down for some more pineapple and banana's so we hung out in the drizzle until he decided it was time to head back into the jungle, or just move 10 feet and be invisible to us...









































The Great Thinker....


















We wanted more, so we headed on a converted fishing boat over to Bako National Park and we were not disappointed.  Cruising with our newest best friend and guide, Riman, he told us a successful trip to Borneo and Bako meant seeing Proboscis Monkey's and Bearded Pigs.  He said if we were lucky we would see them and that he would do his best to find them in the jungle and show them to us while also keeping an eye out for our safety.  The boat landed, we got off, walked about 100 yards and there they were.  A troop of proboscis monkey's in all their glory.  The noses on these primates are amazing.  Very "Jimmy Durante" looking.  They eat leaves and spend about all of their time in the trees.  They are rather shy - unlike Macaques - and pretty much don't hassle humans.








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As Maria and I were taking pictures of the monkey's from the beach a bunch of Bearded Pigs cruised right by us.  I thought Maria was going to run across the South China Sea all the way back to Ho Chi Minh City!  As they pranced on by, oblivious to us, it looked as if they were wearing heels and walking on their tip-toes.  They were way more interested in whatever it is that bearded pigs are interested in then us, but make no mistake, there are tusks under those beards and if provoked they will bite and attack.  We got our pics and moved on from them....



Tip Toe through the tulips...
A walk in the park....
Worth the effort...
So, within about 100 yards and 5 minutes of being off the boat, our trip was a success!  No need to hang out, just get back on the boat and go back, right?  Nope.  Our fearless guide took us on a 800m hike through the jungle to a secluded beach.  It was the hike that almost wasn't had it not been for Riman.  About 100m in Graeme was breaking down.  While there is a nice sea breaze on the beaches, once you walked about 10ft into the jungle the humidity went up to 99% and the air movement was minimal.  Tack on 100 degree temps and he wasn't having it.  I started to join his sentiment and thought it best to just take him back to the parks buildings and cool off.  Riman somehow convinced us to carry on.  Literally, because Graeme was done walking at this point.  We reached the beach much quicker then I thought we would and it was more of a scrambling climb then a hike.  We were up and down, clinging onto branches, roots, trees growing out of rocks, you name it.  While 800m isn't very far, doing it in these conditions while trying to carry a 3 year old, wasn't easy.



We had the option to have a boat pick us up to take us back to the Centre.  We thought about it for a second but hey, the Hawken family didn't come all they way to Bako in Borneo to lay up!  Off we went.  This time Riman and Erin had somehow convinced Graeme that hiking is cool and he was into it.  Scrambling up and down when his little legs would let him and Riman grabbing him and charging through the toughest parts with Graeme in his arms.  This guy was amazing.
A future John Muir?
Look over here Poppy!





When we weren't hunting down wildlife, Graeme spent his time with Nan and Poppy down at the beach.  White sand with a pristine creek flowing from the jungle into the ocean with a few Sandstone rocks sprinkled in.  Pure nirvana for a 3 year old and his Poppy to build forts, harbors, and make boats out of coconuts.




Nan love on the beach...
















On the way back to HCMC we stopped over in Singapore for 2 nights.  I will leave my opinion of Singapore at this:  If you find yourself with a really long layover and can get yourself to leave the most incredible airport in the world (complete with a swimming pool, spa, hotel, outdoor gardens, movie theater, and more) or if you can convince your employer to pay for a "work" trip there - go.  Otherwise spend your money elsewhere because it won't last long enough in this city to enjoy it.  At $10usd per Tiger Beer (50cents in Vietnam) I'll let you figure out the conversion rates.

It is home, however, to what has to be the world's most spectacular zoo.  This place does not disappoint.  There is not one boring or bland exhibit.  You will see animals here that either don't exist anywhere else or no other zoo has.  You can literally eat breakfast with orangutans.  I don't think I need to say more.


Oooh Oooh Aaah Aaah!

White tiger love











Not to be overlooked on this incredible trip, it was my lovely wife's, and Graeme's magnificant Mother's, birthday!  Hopefully the time spent with family and wildlife lived up to her celebratory expectations.  Happy Birthday Honey!  We love you with all our hearts!

We are so delighted to have been able to share the time on this trip to such a special place with Nan and Poppy (Maria and Ross).  Graeme is so happy they are here and it was great to be able to take them on an adventure of a lifetime to Borneo.  So, thank you Nan and Poppy for making the trip all the way here and being brave enough to trust us and to follow us into Borneo.  I think after this trip the next time anyone asks them "why" they went to Borneo they will reply "Why not?  You should go too!"

To see all of the pictures from our trip please click HERE.


Jungle Love
Hoà Bình,
The Hawken's in HCMC

P.S.  We'd like to take a moment to say that our thoughts and prayers are with the families and friends of passengers and crew aboard flight MH370.  Hopefully closure and understanding find you soon.
#thetaoofgraeme

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Tet, One night in Bangkok and Graeme likes Soccer?

Chúc Mừng Năm Mới

Tet
Within days of arriving here, co-workers and newly found friends warned us that we had better book travel plans ASAP for Tet Holiday (Jan 29 - Feb 5) as flights, trains, buses all fill up.  We didn't fully understand it.  We eventually got around to planning a trip to Bangkok, Thailand (more on that trip later in the blog) with little problems.

So what is Tet?  Tet is the Lunar New Year in Vietnam.  Most are probably familiar with Chinese New Year?  That is what the Chinese celebrate for the new lunar year.  While at the same time, Tet is a bit different then the Chinese version, and with 10 times as many Chinese in the world compared to Vietnamese that would explain why most have heard of one over the other.



Happy New Year!
Tet is the most important celebration in Vietnamese culture.  The word is a shortened form of Tết Nguyên Đán which is Sino-Vietnamese for "Feast of the First Morning of the First Day". Tết celebrates the arrival of spring based on the Vietnamese variation of the Chinese lunisolar calendar, which usually has the date falling between the months of January or February.

But what does that mean?  How can we relate?  Well...several months prior to Tet plans go into action to turn certain streets into carnivals of flowers and street vendors.  Entire parks, malls, open spaces, etc. get transformed into impeccably beautifully manicured displays of flowers and traditional Vietnamese lifestyles.  In the week or so leading up to Tet everyone cleans their house like never before.  You want all old, "unlucky" dust, dirt and spirits to go away.  You throw away any dying or old plants and flowers.  You throw (or give) away old tattered clothing. You start to smile and say "Chúc Mừng Năm Mới" (Happy New Year!) to complete strangers as well as those who typically scowl at you during your daily routines.







Part of Tet is all about starting new with the new year and new luck....new outfits, new plants (always Yellow and Red signifying good luck), and new money.  You go around handing our Red Envelopes with "Lucky Money" in them - usually low denonimations handed to kids or workers/helpers how you come into contact with often.  You provide your housekeeping help with an extra month's salary in one of the envelopes as well.  The bills need to be brand spanking new and crisp as Peking Duck.  Going to the bank a week or more prior to Tet is a must or you may be left out to dry.  The money that they hand out is all brand new, the lines are long and the money doesn't last forever.







The other part of Tet involves going home and visiting and staying with your family.  "Home" as in where your heritage is.  The village or area your relatives are still living in.  It is a week of eating and drinking non-stop while visiting with family.  Imagine Thanksgiving that lasts 7 days straight!  With that said, cities like Ho Chi Minh City become ghost towns (no one is "from" HCMC).  Stores, restaurants, everything shuts down.  It's funny because you cannot get a straight answer out of any of them as to exactly which day the will close or re-open; it's all up to whenever the staff return and for Tet the workers have the say and come back to work whenever they please (hey, it's pretty much their only time off all year!).






For example, when we got back from Thailand I ran to the small supermarket in our building.  They are part of a larger chain so they were open, but, there was not one thing stocked in the cold section.  The tables usually stuffed with vegetables and fruits were bare and the beer pyramid, usually way overhead, was down to 2 boxes.  It took about 3 or 4 days for most stores and restaurants to get back online and in form prior to Tet.

Graeme's daycare had the Lucky Dragons come by and perform a dance.  Graeme thought it best to observe from inside behind a glass window while everyone else was outside with the dragons.  They also had a really cute parade (video is HERE ) where all the kids and staff dressed in their best áo dài (pronounced "A Oh Eye") - we were lucky to find one for Graeme at the local market for $2usd.  Graeme fared better with the parade and was super hyped that his Mommy was able to sneak away from work to check it out.

ONE NIGHT IN BANGKOK......


1991 all over again!

Americana....
 So what did we do to celebrate Tet?  Well, we left and went to a country that doesn't celebrate it!  Off to Bangkok, Thailand - mine and Graeme's first time, Erin's 3rd or 4th.  We stayed with an old friend of mine, roommates from college, Dave John.  He is married and has 2 wonderful kids, now living in Bangkok after having lived in several countries around the world over the past 15+ years.

It was a great visit.  Little League games with the kids, dinner at home, leisurely trips to the mall.  An "adventure-less" travel adventure, if you will.  Catching up on old times, reacquainting and watching Graeme tear into toys that have not been touched in years (their kids are 12 and 9).  Graeme loved hanging, or at least trying, to hang with the older kids.  They have an incredible set up in an ex-pat compound with the kids friends freewheeling it about all over the neighborhood.  We managed one evening in Bangkok proper, dinner and some drinks at a network function for Dave's work, but this trip was more about grounding down versus grinding it out.

We bounced the last few days and took a drive south for a few hours to a resort area called Hua Hin.  The "Jersey Shore" of Bangkok kind of.  It's where those with a few extra bucks in their pockets can get away for a weekend, stay at a nice resort and get good beach and pool time in.
Swank

The Jersey Shore of Thailand...
















Meanwhile, back on the ranch....



I am not quite sure how this happened.  I figured we could dodge the "soccer-parent" stigma by moving to SE Asia.  Maybe get him into đá cầu.  Apparently if you are USA born you are obligated as a parent to get sucked into the vortex that is Kids Soccer no matter where you live.  On Saturday mornings the Elementary Assistant Principle puts on a soccer practice for the EC and Kindergarteners....Graeme got invited because his son is also Graeme's age and thought they could keep each other occupied while the older kids ran drills.  Turns out, Graeme likes drills!  He is super engaged when having to listen to the coach, stand in line to wait his turn, and then let it rip.  However, his skill does not quite match his enthusiasm.  Here is a video clip of his first ever soccer drill (best in Full Screen):


Gotta love the hustle though!  He has since gotten better.  

One of the cuter things ever witnessed was when Graeme and his buddy went missing into the playhouse while the older kids ran 2-on-2 games.  When it came time for their turn we all yelled for them and the two of them came running out of the playhouse with helmets on.  The other team never knew what hit them (literally because these two rug rats never got going in the right direction!).

It's a great weekly routine, the coach does an incredible job with the kids and we usually end up across the street for smoothie's afterwards, so there isn't much to complain about!  Even if it gets me in closed-toed shoes more then I'd like to be, it is impossible to deny that Graeme and the kids have a blast running around outside.
Pele look out!




So now we own a soccer ball and spend many afternoons during the week practicing for Saturday morning.  I dred the day when he is old enough that I will actually have to run around to keep up with his soccer skills.  My soccer career as a youth lasted about 1 season before I realized running is not my thing....unless spinning red lights are close behind.









After Thailand we have a 6 week stint before the next big break, but we did find a weekend in late February to join Erin at a conference in Bangkok and Graeme and I are going to sneak back into Thailand for a few days with her.  We also have Erin's parents arriving mid March.  Our first visitors!!!

Please stay awake Graeme!



So we've been keeping busy doing the usual stuff most do anywhere.  Playdates, running errands, cruising on our Skoot bike, going to 5 grocery stores in one day to get what you need, etc., etc.



It's been kind of nice having a routine the past few weeks and looking forward to the same in the next several.  Christmas and Tet vacations were nearly back-to-back and even though travel is a main motivator for our time here it's nice to explore a bit near home and get a bit grounded.

Glad to hear our family and friends have finally seen some rain and snow in California (although not enough!) and feeling for our family and friends on the East Coast getting more winter then usual....more incentive to just come visit us!  It's been gorgeous with low humidity and blue skies and temps topping out in the high 80's to low 90's.  We did have a 3 week run of the coldest temperatures recorded here in decades where we had a few mornings as low as 68 degrees and afternoons only in the low 80's.   The thought!  Don't laugh, upcountry (a bit higher elevation so cooler temps) people actually died!  We are back on track though and able to spend way more time outside then before, thanks to the lower humidity.  So great to be able to hang out outside.

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Thanks to everyone for reading and your kind words of encouragement.  If you need help finding flights to visit please don't hesitate to ask!  Your bedroom awaits and it has the best sunsets views free of charge!

Hoà Bình, 

The Hawken's in HCMC
#thetaoofgraeme